Last night, my 3rd cat was taken back to her owner’s house after 3 weeks in my apartment. I started to miss her from this morning already. I know it would happen from the first day I met her and it always happens after my cats leave me. It is easy for me to get emotional attachment with the cats I take care of. After intensively being with the cats over one week, I made friends with each of them. So far I have taken care of 3 cute cats. I love them all. When I talk about them, I call them MY cats. I can feel they love me and enjoy the time with me as much as I do with them.
These 3 cats came to my life during my past 3 years, brought me a lot of joy and company. The 1st cat I had is an Exotic Shorthair cat, belonging to a Chinese young couple. I was with him 6 months in total until he moved to another city. The 2nd one is a Turkish Angora, a Dutch girl owning her for 8-9 years. I was with her for 2 months. The 3rd one who left me last night is a Swedish cat, raised by a Swedish lady, a German gentleman and a Swedish girl.
Since I have kept 3 cats, I find an interesting connection between the cat’s personality and the owner’s.
Before I share my findings, I want to talk about my blog’s name: a mouse loves catty.
I was born in a mouse year according to Chinese calendar. In my culture, my personality could match some natures of a mouse in the mythology, just as the constellation in Western. So according to the mythology, I could be hurt or gain bad luck if I make friends with cats in real life. But I love cats and their personalities. This contradiction gave me the inspiration of the name for my blog.
I am a cat lover who is a mouse loving catty. Because of it, I become a cat keeper for my friends again and again.
My first cat is named fatty guy in Chinese. But I like to call him Mimi. Mimi and I lived together long enough that he reacts if I call him Mimi instead of fatty guy. He is about 2.5 years old now. When we were together he was about 1.5 to 2 years period. He is a cute and gentle guy. A pair of yellow round eyes are the most adorable part of his face. His flat face is round which looks funny sometimes and unhappy in a lovely way the rest of time. His round flat face with his round eyes makes him look like a cartoon character.
His adorable appearance cannot cover his nerd nature. I am allowed to play with his pawns, pull his tales even when he is eating. What he does for protesting sometimes is hiding himself somewhere you can not see. Well, you can say he is easy going or gentle or whatever. His nerd nature is also showed when he overreacts on louder sound and strangers. If I have a visitor knocking at the door, he is the first guy hiding himself into the far end corner under the bed. He will never come out until the guest leaving my home.
Mimi’s owners, the Chinese young couple, were students in my city. After couple of years in Sweden, they like this country and started up their own trading business between Sweden and China. They are a funny couple, always makes jokes between each other. They sometimes makes jokes on Mimi calling him nerd. Every time they came to my apartment for Mimi, they brought some interesting news and information. They are a couple brings laughter and happiness every time they visiting. Mimi together with them, like a harmonic family, funny and full of joy.
My 2nd cat is Martini. She is a calm, graceful and arrogant old lady. She has beautiful white fur. Her eyes are light blue and yellow. It is said white cat with blue and yellow eyes must be a deaf. And Martini is a deaf too. I feel pity that she can not hear me and feel my emotion from my voice. I missed the cat welcome me back heard the key hitting the door. I guess because of this, she is normally quiet and calm by herself. Sometimes she looks like an old grandma who has experienced a lot in her life, looking at the world serenely. She likes people but rarely shows affection. She do not bear others touching her pawns which can cause an angry attack. So her beauty makes her adorable but her pride keep people a distance.
Martini’s owner is a young Dutch lady, tall and beautiful. She is a smart lady but you can tell her pride from her expression. If you know her not long, you feel not easy to get close to her, and you see her nose aiming you more than her eyes. After knowing her a while, then you understand where her pride coming from. She likes to make things to perfect and she does. All the activities organized by her, no surprises happened and every participant were happy in the end. The day she brought me Martini, she listed all related questions on a paper, including how often I can give candies to Martin, and how often I should wash the toilet box. She kept me in touch asking if Martini was ok if we got along, at least once every week when she was in Asia for vacation. It is not difficult for me to link Martini to this Dutch lady. They both are good friends around me in a distance, gracefully and proudly. It is nice having them, but be careful with the angry attack.
The 3rd cat is Milla, having super big yellow eyes and short silky hair. She is a 3-4 year-old mature girl. Her look is very close to my favorite Chinese domestic cats. She lives in a house having 2 floors with several rooms. She is allowed to explore the neighborhood any time she wants. She is quiet but rather active. She could jump up to the kitchen table and reach the half size windows up to the ceiling. The most of the space in my small apartment was in her territory, from ceiling high windows to hiding place under my bed. She is a clever lady, who can understand what is allowed and forbidden at my home from the first days. Actively as she is, she is able to jump up to the handle and open the door easily. She is like a schoolgirl with good grades and behaves well but never brag in front of others. As other cats, she wishes I could pet her 1 time a day, 24 hours each time. If I am available, I would love to do that.
Milla’s owners are a new couple, Swedish lady and German gentleman with a Swedish girl. To be accurate, Milla lives with them but owned by the Swedish lady and the girl. Like most of Swedes, they are quiet and nice. They like to talk in a very low voice, nearly whisper to each other, no matter on phone or in a fika kitchen. Sometimes you doubt if anyone is talking or no body there. Most of Swedes I meet are humble. It is rare to see a Swede is bragging what he or she has or showing off how rich he or she is. Not only humble, most people here are kind. I was with this Swedish lady and her daughter skiing for the very first time in my life. They taught me skills and helped me improve by my side patiently. Not like the other cats, Milla is understandable and react actively if I call her name. She came close for getting a petting and she always show her care and affections. Just like her owners, quiet and humble. I will not mind if I could live with her for longer time later.
You probably would say the different personalities of my cats are from their breeds which is nothing with their owners. I agree with you, but it is also the owners who choose them as their pets. And their life together forms the pattern they have now. It is an interesting finding which matches each cat I have lived with. I am looking forwards to owning my cat in the future. I am curious what breed I am going to pick and how my cat will reflect my personality to others.